Free Creative Ideas to Help Friends Facing Foreclosure or Bankruptcy

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The 700 Billion bailout plan is not enough to help struggling American’s save homes currently facing foreclosure notices. In some instances a couple may be living paycheck to paycheck and one minor hiccup can derail the family finances. A hospitalization, a reduction in work hours, or increased expenses could mean the difference between shelter and homelessness. Many large institutions that are labeled “too big to fail” have the U.S. government to help when investments go bad, who can you turn to when you hit a rough spot in your family finances?

Your friends are hurting and feeling financial devastated right now. You want to help, but don’t know how. Should you offer to help them in some way as they are having mortgage paying issues? Solving a families money problems with more money may not be the best solution. How can you help friends who are facing a financial nightmare?
Here are free creative ideas to help friends facing foreclosure or bankruptcy:

1. Date night. Offer to watch your friends children while they have a date night. I’m not suggesting you promote going out to Ruth’s Chris steak house and a concert. You can offer to watch their kids at your house and let them have a night to catch-up. No strings attached and you shouldn’t probably assume they will talk about money issues. It’s just a good opportunity to have them talk again.

2. Recommend financial counseling. If your friend was ill or needed surgery, I’m sure you would recommend a good doctor that they could contact. Since a home foreclosure or bankruptcy is a serious financial emergency, see if they would be willing to talk with a professional. Many local cities and counties offer debt counseling services. Also, if you attend a church you can see if your pastor has access to Good Sense Ministry, Crown Financial Ministries and Dave Ramsey church programs. These courses are free at many churches and can offer ideas to help create a budget and track and cut expenses. I have taken the Good Sense Ministry coursework and while much of the information is very easy to understand, you can implement changes overnight. Tracking your expenses daily will open your eyes to where your money is going. The most important aspect of any of these seminars is open communication between spouses and a willingness to try something new with your finances.

3. Listen to your friend. Talk is cheap and free advice is still free. Listening to a friend who is going through a financial disaster like a foreclosure or bankruptcy can be priceless. You might not have the answers, but offering to listen to your friend in need could be the most important thing they need right now. The hard part is going to be listening, as you probably be tempted to give advice.

4. Cook a meal for them. If money is tight for your family as well, you could offer to fix them a spaghetti dinner or have them over to your house for a combined family meal. This will allow you to talk more and show your support through the financial crisis. A healing meal can be a wonderful blessing to your friends.

5. Recommend a professional.
Do you know how to work with your lender and get months added to your mortgage? Do you know what letters to write your lender if you want to extend your foreclosure process? A great, not good, but great realtor or mortgage broker could assist your friend with this information. They have the industry knowledge and could keep your friends in the current home for a few more months. This could also allow them to negotiate the loan terms and keep the home too.

6. Miranda at Yielding Wealth suggested a coupon competition to spark a healthy competition with your friend to try and save as much money as possible. Could you save over $100 a month on your grocery bill? You could also swap coupons or trade coupons with your friends if you don’t purchase a particular item or brand.

7. Buy heating oil in bulk with your neighbors and negotiate a lower price. If you need to purchase heating oil this winter Greener Pastures: Personal Finance suggests helping neighbors save money by buying oil together.

8. Laurel Plum suggests helping friends declutter and sell unwanted items on ebay or craigslist. Laurel has a lot of great info on here website as she specializes in helping people organize and declutter.

9. FruGal emphasizes listening to your friend facing a bankruptcy or foreclosure and also offering to drive kids to school. A carpool to school or even offering to pick up your friends children from soccer practice might give them a little break.

10. FFB recommends calling up a creditor or mortgage company and asking to negotiate the terms of your loan. Can’t hurt when facing a bankruptcy or foreclosure. I would be surprised if they said “no” flat out and wouldn’t be interested in working with the person. If the mortgage lender could add a month or two to the loan, that could help a friend save a home.

11. Jennifer has a wonderful idea to offer and help your friends pets.
Pets can be impacted by a foreclosure and might have to be surrendered to a local animal shelter or adoption agency. If you have the room or yard, you might want to consider offering to house a friends pet.

12. Susan suggests watching a friend for signs of stress and depression.
Offering to talk, listen, and finding medical help if necessary. She also shares how a prepaid phone card could help a friend in need. This could allow someone to stay connected and negotiate with lenders, creditors, and even a realtor.

13. Sean suggests the Drugstore Game found at Chief Family Officer that can help reduce expenses for pennies on the dollar. Great tip!

Do you have a creative free idea that could help your friends through a financial disaster? Leave a comment and I’ll add it to the list above.

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Lehman Brothers Bankruptcy. Millions Lost In Residual Passive Income

The bankruptcy filing from Lehman Brothers over the weekend will not only impact thousands of employees, families, students, foundations, and stock holders, but it will be felt by small and large companies that will have millions lost in residual passive income. Lehman will be different from Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac that will continue to operate and provide loans to thousands of households across the country. Lehman may have assets sold off to other investment firms, including the asset management firm Neuberger Berman who will be sold to the highest bidder. I don’t want to gloss over the significant loss of income for thousands of families who will be looking for work after the bankruptcy or the investors who had assets in Lehman stock and bonds. Since this is a personal finance blog with an emphasis on passive income, I do want to look at the impact the Lehman Brothers bankruptcy has for other companies. Thousands and millions of dollars will be lost with this bankruptcy to companies that earn residual passive income through software licenses, research, suppliers, and even vending sales. Microsoft, Cisco, Bloomberg and even small mom and pop vending machine companies will all feel the financial impact of the Lehman bankruptcy.

So how will the Lehman Brothers Bankruptcy impact these companies residual passive income?
1. Microsoft will lose millions through lost license revenue from windows vista, xp and server sales. Each computer, laptop, and server running Windows software must have a valid license. Lehman is probably just one of Microsoft’s many licensees, so the impact would not be as significant as the others down this list.

2. Cisco, Nortel, or Juniper are also going to lose out on lost server revenue from Lehman Brothers. Lehman must have spent thousands, if not millions on network servers and security for client data.

3. Bloomberg, the company founded by Michael Bloomberg will also lose thousands if not millions from Lehman Brothers. Traders and brokers utilize the Bloomberg terminal on a daily basis for bond prices, news, and even researching mortgage backed securities and municipal bonds. These terminals are a tremendous source of residual passive income for Bloomberg and Lehman probably had hundreds of them worldwide.

4. Staples or Officemax, two of the countries biggest office supply distributors may be impacted by the Lehman bankruptcy as well. Staples may have lost thousands of dollars in passive income from sales of pens, paper, toner cartridges, and office supplies.

5. Xerox, Fuji, or Konica Minolta. These large printing companies could also lose thousands for lost revenue from printing supplies like toner cartridges and ink for large color copy machines. Lehman Brothers probably had a copy room on every floor and would print thousands of color copies each day.

6. Office Lease. Lehman Brothers had numerous offices around the world and landlords will feel the impact of the loss in passive income. Real estate can offer a tremendous passive income opportunity for investors once the initial investment is purchased.

7. Stock research. Lehman Brothers probably spend thousands of dollars each year on stock research updated daily from Goldman Sachs, Merrill Lynch, or even Bear Stearns. Research material would have been utilized for clients and website information. Stock research or analysis can be an incredible source of residual passive income for other brokerage firms. In fact some smaller websites have profited from stock research newsletters, showing this to be passive income to the writer.

8. Coke, Pepsi, and vending machine companies.
Even the big two Coke and Pepsi, will feel the impact of the Lehman bankruptcy. A vending machine can offer passive income as the cost of running the business is very little and cans of Coke and Pepsi sell themselves.

9. Newspaper and magazine subscriptions. The Wall Street Journal, Barrons, New York Times, and others will all be impacted by the Lehman Brothers bankruptcy. Thousands of subscriptions were probably delivered daily to brokers, traders, and analysts and will not be suspended. If these Lehman employees move to another firm, the residual passive income for the newspapers would be reinstated again.

10. Service industry. With thousands of Lehman Brothers employees being impacted by a bankruptcy numerous service industries will feel the impact from lost income. Many service companies offer subscription based models that will certainly feel an impact on residual passive income streams. Cable companies like Time Warner, At&t, Comcast may have a reduction in subscriptions. At&t wireless, Sprint, and Verizon may not sell as many phones and might even have Lehman customers cut back on cell phone plans.

The impact from the Lehman Brothers bankruptcy will be felt not only by the thousands of employees, but by businesses around the world. Fortunately for companies like Microsoft, Cisco, AT&T, Coke, Pepsi, Staples, Xerox, and The Wall Street Journal, they will be able to offset the loss in passive income with new customers. But what about the small business owner or catering company that held exclusive contracts with Lehman Brothers?

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